The most productive tool in fighting social conflict, in reality or online, is constructive interaction. Some people will call it negotiation, diplomacy,
discussion and engagement. Others will call it coercion, capitulation, co-opting
or submission. Invariably one side, or
both, stands to lose something by reaching an understanding or détente.
Sabotaging the dialogue or setting down unreasonable tangential arguments that
prevent the real issues from being discussed is an effective way to prevent
anything constructive from happening.
Years ago on a visit to England, after a few pints, I discovered
myself deep in a debate about the advantages of having the steering wheel on
the right or left side of the car. The debate was serious, it was ironic and it
was impassioned. We argued how it involved history, culture, industrialism,
imperialism – with people I hardly knew – and no one got called a Nazi or a
moron. In the end we agreed that in another 100 years it wouldn't matter because
robots would be doing all the driving. It was great. I never looked at arguing
the same.
If you want to prevent discovery, agreement and truth or
promote discord and distortion, it is not very hard. It is much harder to earnestly
negotiate, be prepared to sacrifice and possibly build something new and
unknown.

Well said, Jon, and with great civility!
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